Three Public Health Reasons Why Marriage Equality Is A Great Idea.

Busting common myths about same-sex marriage.

Despite recent victories worldwide, the debate about marriage equality rages back and forth. On the one hand we could treat queer people as if they were, you know, people. On the other there’s traditional marriage like in the bible (except, you know, not actually like in the bible because we stopped stoning people to death a little while ago).

Tough choice, apparently.

Now since it’s tough to sell the less religious on stories written about peasants thousands of years ago, the actual proposed arguments against marriage equality usually boil down to either “It’s bad for children”, “It’s unhealthy/unnatural” or “It’s bad for society”.

Pictured; basically evil

And whilst researchers (including yours truly) are basically the laziest people on the planet, able to procrastinate with the efficiency of a thousand barely-comatose slugs, these issues are quite important and so have been looked into.

Here’s four reasons why marriage equality is a win for public health and society in general.

1. For The Kids

The first go-to argument that any traditional marriage campaigner will rush to is that they aren’t really denying gay people the chance to marry for themselves; they’re doing it for the children! It should be obvious that traditional biological pairings are healthier for childhood development than two parents of the same sex.

Now, leaving aside the broad swathe of people this includes (single parents, people raised by grandparents etc), and the fact that marriage equality has literally nothing to do with adoption/surrogacy for same-sex parents (they are completely different laws), what does the evidence say about same-sex parents?

It turns out that children raised by same-sex parents actually do better on many measures of health and happiness than their peers. They tend to have more cohesive families, better general health, and be better behaved. There’s also evidence that these children are more open-minded and receive a higher quality of parenting than the average child.

And whilst there’s certainly evidence that these benefits are due as much to the socioeconomic status of same-sex parents (they tend to be more wealthy than the general population), there’s very strong evidence that kids are at least as well off regardless of their same-sex parents’ income.

Marriage equality; do it for the kids

The only negative associated with same-sex parents? Stigma. Children of same-sex parents are at an increased risk of being stigmatized by their peers. Which leads us right on to…

2. Stigma Kills

It’s not news to anyone with a basic understanding of mental health that stigma is a terrible burden. Daily discrimination is the main factor driving the disastrously high rates of mental health disorders and suicide in the queer community. Not only do almost 1 in 5 LGBTI people report current suicidal thoughts, but for some groups 50% have attempted suicide at some point in their lives.

It’s no surprise that the LGBTI community has the highest rates of suicide of any group in the developed world.

And this is all due to stigma.


Not just the overt discrimination like not being able to get married to the person you love, but the everday, humdrum drone of societal disgust and disapproval. Queer people are more likely to be publicly insulted, be ignored by medical staff, and are more likely to abuse drugs and alcohol. It’s no surprise that 1 in 5 report being physically assaulted due to their orientation or gender identity.

Marriage equality is, in and of itself, not a big step. Same-sex couples can already do 99% of the things that differently-gendered couples can do.

But then, sitting at the back of the bus gets you to the same stops, right?

Stigmatizing people for whatever reason is not just wrong, it’s bad for their health. Ignoring marriage equality is literally killing people.

3. Marriage Equality Saves Lives

On that note; marriage equality has been demonstrated to actually prevent people from committing suicide. A recent study found that over a 16-year period US states that legalized marriage equality saw a significant reduction in rates of suicide in young people.

Stigmatizing people for whatever reason is not just wrong, it’s bad for their health. Ignoring marriage equality is literally killing people.

Shockingly, reducing the stigma that young LGBTI people face makes them feel less vulnerable and alone. Normalizing these kids’ lives makes them feel part of society, instead of pushing them to the fringe. They feel happier. More at home.

They don’t kill themselves.

Marriage equality is not just about basic human rights; it’s about saving children’s lives.

Traditionally Awful

From a public health point of view there’s really no question; marriage equality is a good thing. We save lives, we reduce stigma, we might even make life more bearable for some children. There really are no good arguments for so-called “traditional” marriage based on people’s health or wellbeing.

What about from a social point of view?

Ultimately it depends on what you consider as important. If you believe in traditional marriage above all else, go right ahead and marry the partner of your choice.

But let others do the same. It’s not going to affect your marriage. Enforcing your beliefs about what marriage should and shouldn’t be isn’t just about religion.

It’s about whether children live or die.

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